Let’s start by discovering the truth about you according to Scripture. Read these 10 truths. Feel free to look them up in your Bible as well. 

Truth #1: I am free, in Jesus, from condemnation. Conflict does not change my freedom. 

Therefore there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus. For the law of the Spirit of life in Christ Jesus has set you free from the law of sin and of death. (Romans 8:1–2, NASB95) 

Truth #2: I am assured all things work together for good for those who love God. Conflict does not change this assurance.

And we know that God causes all things to work together for good to those who love God, to those who are called according to His purpose. (Romans 8:28, NASB95) 

Truth #3: I cannot be separated from the love of God. Conflict does not separate me from God’s love. 

Who will separate us from the love of Christ? Will tribulation, or distress, or persecution, or famine, or nakedness, or peril, or sword? Just as it is written, FOR YOUR SAKE WE ARE BEING PUT TO DEATH ALL DAY LONG; WE WERE CONSIDERED AS SHEEP TO BE SLAUGHTERED. But in all these things we overwhelmingly conquer through Him who loved us. For I am convinced that neither death, nor life, nor angels, nor principalities, nor things present, nor things to come, nor powers, nor height, nor depth, nor any other created thing, will be able to separate us from the love of God, which is in Christ Jesus our Lord. (Romans 8:35–39, NASB95)